You've chosen several photos from your online dating service and sent
out your personal online profile. Now you are just waiting for the
replies. You wait for a few days, and nothing. You start to feel as
though you should go back to the bars, at least the rejection there is
face to face. What went wrong?
First of all, these people don't
know you, so you can't realistically take a non answer personally. Very
often users of online dating services have a stack of profiles next to
their PC and take their time returning emails, so don't get discouraged.
The worst mistake you can make is contacting people over and
over. This can turn them off and give the impression that you are a
stalker, some dating services online will cancel your membership or
censure you if they receive reports of continuous attempts to contact (
as well they should. Remember, they don't know your motives any more
than you know anyone else's when online.)
Another online dating
tip is to contact as many people that have an interesting profile as
possible. If you only contact two or three, and then wait weeks for a
reply, of course you're going to get frustrated, but if you send contact
emails to 20 different people, chances are you will receive several
replies. Again, do not take it personally! There are over 100 free
online dating sites to choose from, and those are just the free ones.
If
you are continuously getting rejection emails (I do not mean no
replies, but rather actual rejections) maybe the problem is your
profile. Recheck it and see what it says about you. Is it honest and
sincere? Did you send your best picture? Does it sound too needy or too
non committal? Many dating services online provide help with putting
together the perfect profile, and this service is usually free, so take
advantage of the sites help windows, and keep trying!
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Tuesday, December 20, 2011
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